Spirituality with Sass: Sharing all our JUICY Hot Takes

Whoever said spirituality can't be served with a side of sass clearly hasn't tuned into our latest chat on Mindfully Moody. Sara and I, Hannah, are your co-pilots on this unfiltered journey, where the laughs are plentiful and the opinions are served hotter than a morning cup of Joe.

This podcast  we share all the juicy, hot takes on spirituality with a side of sass. We dive into a whirlwind of topics, from relationships and fashion to mindset and manifestation. With no topic off-limits, they discuss everything from the fear of being alone to the disdain for speedos, and even confront the judgment of spiritual individuals.

Get ready for a wild ride as they explore controversial opinions, share personal anecdotes, and challenge societal norms. So sit back, relax, and get ready to embrace the sass and spirituality in this episode of  Mindfully Moody.

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Timestamp overview: 
00:00 Podcast promoting self-improvement and authenticity.

05:43 Older guy with truck causes parking lot mishap.

06:33 Witness intervenes as redneck driver faces confrontation.

12:25 Insulting spirituality reveals fear and insecurity.

15:55 Free mini course: From passion to profit.

17:25 Labels don't always define people accurately.

21:24 Dislike for Diet Coke, prefers Red Bull.

25:30 Marketing perpetuates diet culture, causing attachment issues.

27:01 Shifted mindset about weightlifting for mental health.

31:54 Fear of being canceled for no reason.

33:02 Grateful for listening, love you, have amazing week.

Primary Topic: Relationships and Spirituality

- Fear of being alone and settling for unhappy relationships

- Use of spirituality as an insult and judgement of spiritual people

- Authenticity and open reactions to controversial topics

- The misconception that being spiritual automatically makes someone a good person

Primary Topic: Hot Takes and Opinions

- Attractiveness of guys who drive big trucks, gym bros, and cowboys

- "Woo woo" spirituality and self-expression

- Embracing "woo woo" without apology or qualification

- Controversial opinions and societal judgment

Primary Topic: Mindset and Mental Health

- Positive thinking and self-limiting beliefs

- Rejecting calorie counting and fad diets in favor of intuitive eating

- Impact of societal beliefs about food and exercise

- Shifting mindset for mental health and reducing pressure

Primary Topic: Lifestyle Preferences

- Dislike for speedos and certain fashion styles

- Parking habits and preference for not backing into parking spots

- Cancel culture and room for change and growth in society

- Energy drinks, Baja blast, and Mountain Dew

Primary Topic: Personal Growth and Reflection

- Impact of unhealed trauma on relationships

- Accessing Christ consciousness and reflection on personal shifts

- Mindset shift and reducing pressure in weightlifting

- Importance of being open to change and growth

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:03

What is up everyone? Welcome to Mindfully Moody, a podcast community to help you, empower you, guide you, support you, love you on your journey to be the absolute best version of yourself. We are happy to have you back for another episode. I'm Sarah and I am joined by my best friend and co-host, hannah, and we're getting into it. Today, we got some shit to say, and you know what I actually think. It's literally so amazing that I feel that we have just blasted the doors wide open of like we're just going to be free, we're just going to be ourselves, we're going to be authentic, we're going to say what we want to say and we are not going to be afraid of what people have to say about it.

Speaker 2: 0:54

Period, because we got some hot takes up in this bitch. We're getting raw, we're getting real. We're going to just be telling you some things that we have maybe a controversial opinion on Getting into dirt. Getting into, I don't even know.

Speaker 1: 1:14

We want to be funny, we want to be, we want to be getting some laughter going, getting some giggles happening. And actually, if you didn't listen to our relationship episode, like what it what was it titled? Hannah?

Speaker 1: 1:29

red flags and ghosting. Go listen to that if you are someone that's dating, even if you're not, like just to get some laughs. But we posted some clips on tiktok of that episode and people had some reactions some good reactions, some bad reactions and people had some reactions some good reactions, some bad reactions and we love it. I just, yeah, we love it. We're open to the reactions. You know what, we're being free and you be free too, react if you want to react. But it just makes me think about too, like before we even get into it, like spiritual people can have opinions too. Okay, like we're allowed to, right.

Speaker 1: 2:07

That person Say spiritual people can have opinions too, okay, like we're allowed to right that.

Speaker 2: 2:09

Say what we want to say. You know what I mean? Yeah, okay, wait, let's give like just like a little insider about. About the comment. It's not even that big of a deal, but what were we talking about? Oh, I was talking about um, men that send selfies, too many selfies. I'm like it's cringe, it gives me the ick and someone's like wow way to make fun of guys or some shit like what did she say?

Speaker 1: 2:28

yeah, I mean, I think there was actually a few. I think there was a few, and the one that I'm thinking of is like well, yeah, no, the one that you're talking about was like give guys like a break, or like something like that, and it's like something about spiritual. Oh, it says, like your honey, we've been giving guys a break, society is giving guys plenty of a break, but no, someone else wrote exactly what you're just saying. Like your whole shtick is like mindset and spirituality and like you're, you know, you're like getting on men for sending selfies and it's like we're allowed to have opinions.

Speaker 2: 3:01

Right, right, you can't have a growth mindset and like, not want, not want a guy to send you a selfie the first 72 hours of knowing him. Like, are you off your?

Speaker 1: 3:10

rocker lady like. Also, it's reminding me of the episode of yeah, it's also reminding the episode of like we do both, when we were talking about that. Like we're spiritual girlies and we watch reality tv and we have hot takes and we have opinions, like I think that like, as we've grown in our lives, like we've maybe shifted away from like having as harsh of opinions as like certainly myself, the younger version of myself had of like black and white, but like it doesn't mean I don't like and dislike things.

Speaker 2: 3:42

Yeah, you know it's so funny, as I'm like and dislike things yeah. You know it's so funny, as I'm like going through this list and creating hot takes, I'm like these are going to be controversial, but I feel like not for the general audience, like I'm like they're going to be controversial between me and you.

Speaker 1: 3:55

I'm like I know that you're going to be like ew, that's funny. All right, let's go. What?

Speaker 2: 4:01

you got what's all right, let's start off. Let's start off hot with a good one. Hot, take guys that drive big trucks are sexy. I've been like lately turned on by a guy who drives a truck and like in the past I was like ew, that's disgusting, like oh my god, it takes up so much gas. You know environment, bad for the environment. And now I'm like literally turned on. I'm like damn, like daddy in the truck okay, I'm dead because you are so right.

Speaker 1: 4:35

That is gonna be one that I am not into, although, like, I could maybe be into. Like, like it depends on the truck. You know, like, what kind of truck are we talking? Like?

Speaker 2: 4:45

Not a big old Texas rig.

Speaker 1: 4:46

Okay.

Speaker 2: 4:47

Not like the ones that are like lifted, not like the big ass wheels Right. But like a nice big truck, like pick me up, daddy.

Speaker 1: 4:58

Does he have a purpose for the truck Like? I need more details. No, you know no.

Speaker 2: 5:06

All right, the truck like. I need more details you know.

Speaker 1: 5:07

All right, no farmer or something, I don't know cow, no, I'm thinking that's way hotter. Like a cowboy with a truck is way hotter than like an average gym bro in austin with a truck that does nothing with it. No, the hot take cowboys are hotter.

Speaker 2: 5:23

Wow coming from a horse girl, you know. I was actually thinking this as a hot take as well. I was like gym bros are kind of hot, like they're on their shit, like they're committed Whoa, whoa, whoa.

Speaker 1: 5:36

Stop right there.

Speaker 2: 5:39

Hold up. Take over the mic, please.

Speaker 1: 5:42

Okay, I actually it's funny about the truck. I had this situation yesterday and this was like an old guy with a truck, so I mean older guy with a truck, but like he used to think that he was a hot guy with a truck, he still thinks that he's a hot guy with a truck. I was in the whole foods parking lot and I literally, like in florida texas is probably the same people have these giant hitches on the back of their truck, like literally comes out like two feet from the car, runs directly into like a small car while I am parked in my parking spot and I witness him do it. Okay, backs right into the thing. Bam hits it, gets out of the car, looks, gets back in the car, pulls into the spot, across so that like they wouldn't know that it was him that did it shut up, he.

Speaker 2: 6:32

He just left it. What did you do? So I?

Speaker 1: 6:34

like zoom in and I like get a picture of his license plate because it's like, okay, yeah, hot, take. Is what would you do in this situation? Um, and then I witness another car who must have also seen it come park and I had my window up and I was like not trying to be too nosy and like start yelling at the guy, basically Like saying that like what he did was wrong and like it's like this redneck guy, he's like he's like fighting back.

Speaker 2: 7:02

Oh my gosh. Yeah, I mean, I definitely would have done that too, because imagine if someone did that to your car.

Speaker 1: 7:06

I would be so I know well, I got out and, like I looked at the damage and it wasn't because I was thinking I'm gonna leave a note on this person's car and tell them like literally like this man like hit your car. You know what I mean, but the damage wasn't that bad. But still, you know, screw that guy for doing that. Um, but maybe if it's like a bronco or something, okay, anyway, moving on, she likes gym boys now okay.

Speaker 2: 7:38

But like, if you think about it like, think, think about the qualities of a gym guy, gym tan, tan, laundry. No, like he's consistent, he cares about his health. Like he prioritizes self-care. Like why are we hating on gym bros Like, and they have a good body? I mean like I'm not Depends on the guy. Okay, I'm just going to be keep going. The hot takes keep coming. Okay, just let me shut up.

Speaker 1: 8:05

Literally shut up. Literally shut up, just right off. Okay, I'm going to do a relationship one Hot take.

Speaker 1: 8:09

Most people are in unhappy relationships and will continue to be in them Romantic relationships because they are scared to be alone. I've been thinking about this a lot lately because I've been thinking about just like compatibility, that two people are required to have to literally embark on life together, and the fact that so many people are in relationships and it literally doesn't. I'm thinking about that meme where it's like have like plus, like minuses. Yeah, I'm like it's not. It's not making sense to me. It's not making sense to me that so many people are in committed relationships because of how hard it is to literally have a compatible relationship and it just then. Therefore, my mind makes me think OK, people are just so scared to be alone that they will literally settle for the absolute bare minimum the worst type of qualities in a partner. Settle for the absolute bare minimum, the worst type of qualities in a partner they will never leave, because they're just so scared about what it would be like to be alone period 100 people are.

Speaker 1: 9:14

So many people are in that it's like, well, this is what I got, I'm stuck with it right and like our parents generation, like that's just what they did because they didn't want to get divorces, you know. So like they like literally, were like well, I'm stuck with it for 50 years, right. And then people end up cheating, signing up for pure misery.

Speaker 2: 9:33

People end up cheating or constantly fighting or just like dealing with the shit and being unhappy. So if you're in a relationship that doesn't make you happy, leave Facts. Okay, I got a good one here. Hot take Speedos should be illegal and you should go to jail if you wear a speedo. I've never seen a guy wear a speedo that looks good. Hot take Doesn't look good Like just wear wear boxer pants, swim trunks or something.

Speaker 1: 10:11

I'm so with you on this one. Like I completely agree. Like I've never seen a guy in a speedo, I've been like hell damn holler at me like I get it you want to like? No, I actually don't get it, but like you. I don't get it be more scantily clad, like it is a very like euro thing, you know, yeah, like I'm thinking like, okay, what about like hot model, like on, like the beach in Italy, like is it's still late, it still ain't doing it for me yeah, no, I'm with you, it's doing it for you, you love it?

Speaker 1: 10:45

no, I don't.

Speaker 2: 10:46

I'm thinking just get shorts that are like shorter yeah, you know like swim shorts that like show a little more leg if you want to show the leg, yeah, get some short shorts, get some chubby.

Speaker 1: 10:56

I'm with you on that because the butt never looks good in the speedo either, like it's not kidding.

Speaker 2: 11:04

Does reza own a speedo?

Speaker 1: 11:06

no, and he does not. No, and he is never, ever, ever going to. He is, he is. Would he wear a speedo?

Speaker 2: 11:15

I'm gonna ask him after this ask him if he's ever wore one before. Come on, just hit him with the text babe, have you ever worn a speedo before?

Speaker 1: 11:27

have you ever worn a speedo before? We need some content for the podcast. Yeah, no, he never has, would you ever? Oh?

Speaker 2: 11:38

yeah, sure, yes, loves it, if you want him to.

Speaker 1: 11:44

Good guy. That's funny. That's actually hilarious In Italy.

Speaker 2: 11:50

He just said in Italy. Ok, well, stay tuned on the podcast. Sarah will send you guys an email of Reza and his speedo in Italy on their honeymoon.

Speaker 1: 11:59

Like is he going to look good in it? That's what I'm thinking right now.

Speaker 2: 12:02

He's your man, so like OK. The one exception they don't have to go to jail is if it's your man, ok, but like no, my man is not wearing a Speedo.

Speaker 1: 12:10

No, he's never going to wear a Speedo. Like. He just said that. To like say some shit. Ok, yours are so funny. That's actually hilarious. I'm like what don't I like clothes? Okay, I, I gotta, I gotta keep thinking on that one. Okay, I want to say another, um, more serious one, but also make it funny, because this is really on my mind now. Lately, too, the people that say like, oh, you're so woo, woo, or you're so like spiritual, or like that and like, use it as literally a form of insult, which I feel like is like low-key, running rampant right now, like it is. That is such an ick, like the fact that you're going to use that as an insult. You are literally scared and intimidated by spirituality and you don't know who you are and that is why you are putting that out there. Like people that have a connection to spirituality are like that's, that's weird, that's crazy. You know, like, ew, like. Even as I'm saying this, I'm like, ew, like. Why, who does that?

Speaker 2: 13:18

you know what I mean yep, I'm immediately thinking about someone who has said that was like I I'm not spiritual, like that. Like why are you grossed out that I have a connection with myself, like that's weird, that's weird, that's weird on you.

Speaker 1: 13:34

That's weird and it's like. I saw this TikTok and it went literally like viral and crazy about this guy being like talking about woo woo, being angry, used as an insult, and then like going in like the complete opposite direction of like how spiritual people like know so much about the world and themselves and have so much knowledge and connection, and like how it is actually such a badge of honor to like wear the idea of being woo woo, like connected to the planets and god and and mother gaia and like all of these things you know, like. So if you do that, you listen, like about to go into the listener. People listen to this podcast, definitely agree with what I'm saying right now. But even people that listen to this podcast and be like, oh, that's woo woo and I've done this a lot in the past earlier in my spiritual journey like don't demean yourself by saying woo woo, you feel me like? Oh, I'm too woo woo for other people, or that's too woo woo of a thing it's like.

Speaker 2: 14:30

No, I definitely do that I definitely do that and I was actually listening to this podcast. But it's like like I'll be, like I know it's a little woo woo and, if you actually like think about it like I was thinking about this podcast, and they're talking about being like ashamed of calling themselves like influencers, but like, end of the day, like it's fucking cool that you're influencing people. You're a woman who's like running her own business, like making mad money, like impacting the world, and it's like that's the same thing, like why there's no shit, like sorry, it's a little woo woo, don't apologize for me being like I'm not apologizing for me being woo woo. Like that's cool, that's spiritual. It's like you're just trying to like lessen the impact or the feelings of other people or something in that, or at least like I'm doing that almost. It's like you don't want people to.

Speaker 1: 15:17

Right? Well, because it's just not accepted by society at large. So we feel like we have to, like you know, qualify it and caveat it and have all these like additional things, because maybe we won't be accepted, because we're not fitting in with the rest of society. You know.

Speaker 2: 15:35

Yeah, okay. We need to turn it every time we say it's giving woo-woo in the best way, like, yeah, no, we love it we love woo-woo.

Speaker 1: 15:44

I literally love woo-woo. To me woo-woo is like fabulous, you know, like that, like that's my shit, that's my shit.

Speaker 2: 15:55

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Speaker 2: 17:36

So we can't always just trust the labels that people put on themselves, right, we have to wait for them to show us who they are. But I feel like, yeah, there's this energy, like, oh, they're spiritual, they must be a good person.

Speaker 1: 17:49

Eh, not the. There's this energy like oh, they're spiritual, they must be a good person. Not the case, totally agree, like there are bad people for lack of a better way to say that in every single group in society, including spirituality, and you should always, always use your intuition, use your you know, wisdom and understanding of people to decide who is a good person, who's not. You know. Okay, I actually want to piggyback off of something that probably goes with the truck thing, but an actual, like really long-term ick of mine and hot, take people that back into parking spaces, give small dick energy, like here you are you're literally stopping up the whole lane in Whole Foods, the whole parking line, because you need everyone to know that you are such a good driver that you know how to reverse into a parking spot.

Speaker 2: 18:56

Like you're not saving that much time, bro. Easy access out, like it's not. It just reminds me of Cam, you know. Did you see the TikTok of Cam pulling back? Whoa, daddy knows how to pull the mat, he's so hard. Oh, he knows how to back the parking spot. I wish I knew how to drive a car like that.

Speaker 1: 19:21

Can we get him on the podcast? Like, let's literally manifest right now him coming on the podcast. That would be so freaking funny. Oh my god, we just laughed the whole time.

Speaker 2: 19:33

So true, but like he made it, he made it look hot. But I don't know, I don't know, I might have to debate this one. You know you're in sitting passenger princess. He whips his arm around you, his little muscle touches you. He looks in the bag. You can see little glands, like it's kind of hot reza actually does do.

Speaker 1: 19:54

This is the funny thing, um, but it just, you know, when you're in a group, like it's reminding me we were on this family vacation where my dad was like backing into parking spots and literally me and my whole family were like, oh shit, like same as like the camp, I'm like you know how to back in. Like damn, it's like it just literally gives me. It's just like you're asking to be made fun of. Like if you are backing into a space, like you have literally opened the floodgates to me. Making fun of you, like it is just it's too much for me.

Speaker 2: 20:30

Like why are you holding up traffic? Like come on, you're doing too much and you know people do.

Speaker 1: 20:36

There's one thing if it's an empty area, but now you're literally holding up traffic like in a parking garage or some shit, keep it moving.

Speaker 2: 20:43

Keep it pushing boy, that kills me.

Speaker 1: 20:48

All right.

Speaker 2: 20:53

That's funny going into the food and beverage arena hot take Mountain Dew is good.

Speaker 1: 20:56

Oh, you lost me there.

Speaker 2: 20:58

You lost me hold up, hold up, baja Blast, baja Blast. Come on, come on, all right it's been years.

Speaker 1: 21:05

I haven't had that in like 10 years. I would maybe have to like get a sit. I'm like you don't even more 15, you never. No, yes baja blast fucks. Well, how long ago was I in college?

Speaker 2: 21:17

that's about 10 years, yeah do you guys get a baja blast in miami when you ordered taco ball at four in the morning?

Speaker 1: 21:24

I would man I was that diet, a diet Coke girl you know, other people did but I've been like grossed out by that for like like I have this, it kind of gives like Red Bull. I would have fought you way more on that one if you said Red Bull is good. It kind of gives Red Bull type of vibe to me, where it's like people are just it gives gasoline and like people are just literally like I don't know can somehow getting convinced that this is good for marketing, like that's what. Like red bull is literally marketing. Red bull is not good it's disgusting.

Speaker 2: 22:01

Also, I do not like mountain dew. I need to just stay that. But it's like I only drink. But I need to state this, so you guys don't fully judge me I only drink Baja Blast if I go to Taco Bell, which is like never. Is there a difference?

Speaker 1: 22:14

It's a different kind. Baja Blast is Mountain Dew. Yeah, Baja Blast is Mountain Dew. They're the same.

Speaker 2: 22:20

Oh it's a Mountain Dew brand. Like I didn't think we'd be going into this. It's just like a flavor of Mountain Dew. Oh it to this. It's just like a flavor of Mountain Dew.

Speaker 1: 22:33

Oh, it's a, oh it's a flavoring my sister's husband drinks Mountain Dew and I always make fun of him. Randy got the dues like dude. It's such a midwestern vibe to me, you know, like it really is like.

Speaker 2: 22:40

I know people that drink Mountain Dew too once a year, but not last.

Speaker 1: 22:44

I gotta try it now. I feel like it hits. You're like you don't, you don't need to try it, it ain't that good.

Speaker 1: 22:54

Oh my God. Okay, I'm going on another mindset one, and I feel like this actually is a really hot take, because people get really triggered by this, and I get it. It is, it can be triggering, it can be triggering. It can be triggering. But if you say that you will not make it, if you say I will never have X, I will never have a job that gives me the freedom that I desire, I will never meet. I will always be alone. I will always be alone. I will never meet the love of my life. I will. There's no man out there for me. I will never meet the love of my life. There's no man out there for me. I will never live in the house that I dream of, have the life I dream of. You literally won't.

Speaker 1: 23:38

You won't and I'm like is that as triggering? I feel like what's triggering about it is that you have your, your energy has the power to create things for yourself negative or positive and if you sit in that kind of mindset, you will never achieve the things that you desire to achieve, like you're literally telling the universe don't bring this to me, you know especially the relationship one like I will always be alone. I will never find my partner like then. You never will right and like.

Speaker 2: 24:15

Then you're just like looking for like experiences in your life to solidify that feeling right, I'll never be in a relationship. Oh now, I dated that shitty guy. Oh, that person treated me like shit. Oh, I don't get any likes on Instagram or on dating apps Poor me, poor me, victim mindset. Yep, we need to get in abundance. Everything that we desire is on its way to us. Yes, okay, hot take. You don't need to calorie count to lose weight.

Speaker 1: 24:46

That's a good one.

Speaker 2: 24:48

Yeah.

Speaker 1: 24:48

Agreed 100% agreed.

Speaker 2: 24:51

Proof for me that I literally Lost 25 pounds in the past six months. Proud of that Snaps for me, woo. And literally didn't count one single calorie. Like intuitive eating, baby. Oh, we got a little thumbs up here on the video, thumbs up for the energetics. Literally I did not count one single calorie ever. It was all intuitive eating and like eating foods that made me feel good. And fuck the calorie counting that that shit is so restrictive.

Speaker 1: 25:23

Completely agree. I'm going to piggyback off that and say hot take fad diets are a complete fucking scam.

Speaker 1: 25:30

Yes and they literally keep you stuck in a cycle of diet culture like they are marketing. They don't work and people have such a hard time With that. You know, because like People get so like, they get so attached To like their diets. You know, take it back, hannah and Sarah. I mean we were never attached to like Weight Watchers, but you know how people were like attached to that, like it was like a part of their personality, like I'm on Weight Watchers.

Speaker 2: 26:01

I mean like we were going to weekly meetings. We were eating the snacks, like we were kind of attached to it.

Speaker 1: 26:06

Dude, hit me with the ingredients list of those snacks Right now like I would literally tear them a new one Like that's so unhealthy, the chemicals and that shit, um, but yeah, I completely agree, the calorie counting, the diets being like you do not have to do that, like eating real food, minimally processed food which, by the way, is really freaking good food from the earth you know it's like that's another thing that I feel like we convince, society convinces us. It's like not good.

Speaker 2: 26:35

You know what's up, literally I know, wait, we, I this is like a actually just a topic that is like coming to mind but like things just change.

Speaker 2: 26:45

Like about food. Like when you start to see like food that's good for you quote unquote like as actually tasty and nourishing, like things change. Or when you see, like walking or going like on a workout going to work out as like good for your mental health and like makes you feel like endorphins, like you have a change. I just had like this mental shift about weight lifting, because I know how good weight lifting is for me and my mental health, and now I'm like I got out of this place of like I need to go to the gym like three times a week. I need to do these sets. It's like no, let me just go go to the gym and lift a couple weights because it's going to make me feel good, rather than like I need to build my ass or like get strong muscles, like I'm having this total shift. That was like totally off topic, but we should talk about that of like having those mindset shifts, because it makes things so much easier and takes pressure off things.

Speaker 1: 27:32

So true, so true. It's like things don't have to be as hard as we make them. You know, hot take, we make shit way harder than it needs to be, you know.

Speaker 2: 27:45

Yeah, that's a cool take.

Speaker 1: 27:46

I think we all know that. Yeah, yeah, people ones, okay, hot take Close it out Nice guys don't finish last.

Speaker 2: 28:00

Like, come on, let's make nice guys finish first. Like, why are the nice guys always finishing last? Let's change that narrative. I just wanted to say that. One for the collective let's get the, let's get the the. You're right, okay, did I just go literally on like stutter repeat let's let the nice guys win first this year. Come on 2024, let's go okay, yeah, hot.

Speaker 1: 28:25

Take. The reason that nice guys don't finish a lot or do finish last and women like bad boys or whatever is because they are so incredibly unhealed from their trauma, from their life. So nice guys finish last because people never heal their trauma and people can't take responsibility for their trauma and therefore become a better version of themselves that understands that they don't deserve to be treated like shit, like their father, mother, grandfather, ex-boyfriend, brother, sister, cousin, friend taught them that they should be period.

Speaker 2: 29:04

Okay, let's just rapid fire like three more. We would just go back and forth. Oh okay, wait like what else I got? Okay, go ahead, go ahead okay I mean just beer is not good, beer is disgusting.

Speaker 1: 29:18

Dude, I'm so with that one right now. I am so with that one right now. Ok, everyone has the power. I'm curious about what people's responses on this would be. Everyone has the power to access Christ consciousness, which is what I think that Jesus access, and I think that you can access it, I can access it and everyone can access it. And I don't think that anyone access, and I think that you can access it, I can access it and everyone can access it. And I don't think that anyone should be put on a pedestal. I don't think anyone should be a guru. Everyone has the power to create that in their own lives.

Speaker 2: 29:49

Period. Similar along those lines is, I feel, like hot take. We're all talking to the same God, buddha, jesus, muhammad Ali, muhammad Ali, muhammad Ali. He might be God in some people's eyes. Whoever I was trying to go for when the flow just keeps going. When the flow just starts flowing. We're all talking to the same God here, okay.

Speaker 1: 30:19

So, so freaking real. Okay, it's funny because I'm looking at a bag of this Hot take Ultra. Preppy clothes are ugly as shit. Okay, I'm talking vineyard vines, like that type of vibe. So ugly, hate it, not my vibe. Let's close the stores. Not the vibe I'm looking at, like kind of preppy bag called southern tide. So that just spurred my memory.

Speaker 2: 30:49

It's giving naples, florida. Okay, yeezys are ugly, they're just ugly. Just stop wearing them. Kanye's done, and so are Yeezys.

Speaker 1: 31:01

Dude, abso-fucking-lutely, abso-fucking-lutely. Never had them, never wanted them, always hated them. Okay, hot take, is this my final one? Cancel. Culture has gotten absolutely out of control, oh okay, were you gonna elaborate on that?

Speaker 1: 31:24

that's an unexpected one. No, I I will slightly elaborate. I think that people literally allow no room for change from others. They rip people apart in entertainment, on, like influencers, regular people in your friend group, like people are literally held with their feet to the fire for every single thing that they do or say. And I'm not saying that, that excuses, like you know, prejudice or anything like that. Obviously I'm not saying that. But excuses, like you know, prejudice or anything like that. Obviously I'm not saying that. But this shit is crazy out here at this point, like people literally cannot even live their damn life without having some sort of fear that they're going to cancel. I mean shit, we have it, you know, like someone's going to cancel us. Give Mindfully Moody off the air or something.

Speaker 2: 32:18

Damn, I know, and that I mean, I mean like one. It's like watching, you know you do have to people do sometimes have to watch what they have to, what they say. But like, if you're just, you know, if you're being a good person, you have a good heart. Like, and there's haters, people trying to cancel you, like yeah means you made a baby.

Speaker 1: 32:37

No, I'm kidding. Some people are really doing bad shit, but you know what I mean.

Speaker 2: 32:40

It's gotten out of hand, yeah, it really has okay, all right. Well, that wraps up our hot takes episode don't cancel us, don't cancel us, please. If you hated what we said, just keep it to yourself, okay as we say in spirituality, take what resonates and leave what doesn't thank you so much for listening. We appreciate you. We love you. We hope you have an amazing week. Bye.